A friend leaves the child to me and goes on a spree - I wait for weeks
I highly appreciate our friendship and sincerely wish my friend happiness, but this cannot continue.She leaves her child with me, and she herself may not appear for weeks.
We grew up in the same orphanage, but despite this, many of our company were able to get more or less normal in this life.We maintain relationships with each other, often call and see each other.From early childhood, the four of us were friends, the company never broke up, we still communicate and are friends.Only Yulia is not a woman, but a disaster.She did not get married, but there is a child, the boy is already 8 years old.Julia raises him without a dad, foolishly at the age of 16 she became pregnant.We asked to leave the child, she obeyed and did not regret it.
I know he loves his son, but really wants him to have a father.
She has this obsession - to find a groom and get married as soon as possible at any cost.It's hard for her and I understand her.It is difficult - morally, financially, because she is completely alone.In truth, except for her friends, she has no one.And for several years now, she periodically leaves her son to me, and she herself meets with the guys, goes on dates.
At first, I only supported her, everything was fine, like I even found a good, smart and serious guy.And it's not difficult with a child - the boy is already big, he is smart and independent, he obeys, he is not capricious.Definitely not in the mother, she is different.He is even able to warm up breakfast for himself, he does not need to look after him every second - a wonderful child, and he will do his homework and read it himself.If I let go for a walk - it always comes on time and not a foot from the yard!
But now everything has changed with Yulia, and not for the better.A few months ago, she found herself a new fiancé and began to disappear for weeks.I recently brought my son, promised to pick him up in the morning.I don’t judge her, I understand myself - they want to spend the night together, but in the morning Julia did not come, and in the evening, too.I started to worry.At first she did not answer my calls, she simply did not pick up the phone, and then she called back and quickly said that she was delayed, apologized.
A stone fell from my soul, well, thank God - alive.Since then, she began to disappear like this more often, Julia could leave for several days, and last time she disappeared altogether for a whole week, only periodically she wrote, they say, she is alive and well.
Where she got - I do not know, I see her son also suffers, misses his mother.This is the fate with us, with orphanages.Someone himself suffered and now protects their children like chicks, while others follow in the footsteps of their parents - they fly like cuckoos.
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